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• Where is the Perfect Man Oh Love Genie?!

  发布人 .SABRINA. at 2009年11月29日
  While I do find the banter on this thread cute I don't understand what it has to with the subject matter...whatever...it's cool...but I just want to say that there is NO PERFECT MAN...NO PERFECT WOMAN on the face of the planet, nor is there any perfect relationship.

   

  We must all "pick our poison" so to speak.  The inherent problem with marriage (and relationships in general) today is that marriage -- the union of two people -- was NEVER meant to be happy in any sense of the word.

   

  Let’s review the history:

   

  Yet we use it so often the words happy together with marriage that we misunderstand the institution altogether.  Marriage was mainly to unite a man and a woman to work together to tend a farm and have kids to take over the duties as people age.  But today -- we are so all about the romantic period idea of love happily ever after -- that when we are miserable in a marriage we give up and walk away. We don't realize as we wear that white gown and tuxedo that it is never going to be what we hope and dream of.  IT will get boring; love will fade from that hot and heavy sex to a sweet long-lasting trust if you are LUCKY and work at it.

   

  Having said all that I truly understand the need to walk away when there are really serious issues involved...like drugs/alcohol addiction, gambling away savings, and extreme abuse or violence.

   

  Forget the whole idea that you will only have eyes for each other and one or both will most likely stray over the course of a lifetime though it should not be condoned or accepted....it should not be the be all and end of all of a marriage.

   

  We do have to make choices of some major, major issues in a partner.  We are not going to be able to find the hottest, sexiest, most romantic, kindest, most loving, loyal, honest, hard-working, fun to be with at all times, never going to have a bad word between you, perfect at parenting, knows all of your favorite things, kisses really good, compliments you every day, spends just the right amount of money, great housekeeper, wonderful cook, adores your every move, never snores, doesn't gain weight, will never cheat on  you, takes care of you when you are sick, loves everyone in your family, can't wait to get that favorite pet, shares the remote and will cuddle with you whenever you need them because they are always there for you.......person.

   

  I'm sure I have left out about a thousand other things...but we have to get realistic....it isn’t all that!! It is not a magic institution that makes your every dream come true and takes care of your every need deal - even though that's what the world would have you think and pretty much what the vows are all about...in sickness AND in health, for richer OR for poorer, for better OR for worse, until death DO you part. That means you have to accept some pretty major health issues and face them together, it means dealing with severe money issues if that is what it comes to, and basically for better or for worse says it all.  It was meant to be a contract that neither party was legally or religiously allowed to back out of in the event of misery.  There WILL be misery...you can count on that.  But the misery can be minimized if both parties cooperate.  

   

  Be careful---if this is not something that you can manage...do NOT do it. There is no law neither legal nor religious against NOT getting married and there is no law or commandment (religiously speaking) that says you absolutely HAVE to marry.

  The common denominator is this: compatibility notwithstanding - is the person you are wanting to spend the rest of your life with capable of kindness and forgiveness even in the worst of times?

   

  If not...RUN.

   
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• The gambler

  发布人 xunosmangos at 2009年11月29日
  On a warm summer's evenin' on a train bound for nowhere,
  I met up with the gambler; we were both too tired to sleep.
  So we took turns a starin' out the window at the darkness
  'Til boredom overtook us, and he began to speak.
  
  He said, "Son, I've made my life out of readin' people's faces,
  And knowin' what their cards were by the way they held their eyes.
  so if you don't mind my sayin', I can see you're out of aces.
  For a taste of your whiskey I'll give you some advice."
  
  So I handed him my bottle and he drank down my last swallow.
  Then he bummed a cigarette and asked me for a light.
  And the night got deathly quiet, and his face lost all expression.
  Said, "If you're gonna play the game, boy, ya gotta learn to play it right.
  
  You got to know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em,
  Know when to walk away and know when to run.
  You never count your money when you're sittin' at the table.
  There'll be time enough for countin' when the dealin's done.
  
  Ev'ry gambler knows that the secret to survivin'
  Is knowin' what to throw away and knowing what to keep.
  'Cause ev'ry hand's a winner and ev'ry hand's a loser,
  And the best that you can hope for is to die in your sleep."
  
  When he'd finished speakin', he turned back towards the window,
  Crushed out his cigarette and faded off to sleep.
  And somewhere in the darkness the gambler, he broke even.
  But in his final words I found an ace that I could keep.
  
  You got to know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em,
  Know when to walk away and know when to run.
  You never count your money when you're sittin' at the table.
  There'll be time enough for countin' when the dealin's done.

   

  
  
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• The Corrs

  发布人 .SABRINA. at 2009年11月29日
   
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• ~ I need you ~

  发布人 .SABRINA. at 2009年11月29日
   

   

   

   
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• Oceano (Groban) and Pausini

  发布人 .SABRINA. at 2009年11月29日
   

   

   

   
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• The best ---> (Andrea Bocelli)

  发布人 .SABRINA. at 2009年11月29日
   

   
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• Caruso (Beautiful)

  发布人 .SABRINA. at 2009年11月29日
   

   
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• ραгtγ ιη thε usα

  发布人 tECKtONiKA at 2009年11月29日
  ραгtγ ιη thε usα

  I hopped off the plane at LAX
  with my dreams and my cardigan
  welcome to the land of fame excess
  am i gonna fit in
  jumped in the cab,
  here i am for the first time
  look to the right and i see the hollywood sign
  this is all so crazy
  everybody seems so famous
  my tummys turnin and im feelin kinda home sick
  too much pressure and im nervous,
  cause when the taxi man turned on the radio
  and a Jay Z song was on
  and the Jay Z song was on
  and the Jay Z song was on
  
  so i put my hands up
  they're playing my song,
  and the butterflies fly away
  noddin' my head like yea
  movin my hips like yea
  i got my hands up,
  there playin my song
  i know im gonna be ok
  yea,
  its a party in the USA
  yea,
  its a party in the USA
  
  get to the club in my taxi cab
  everybodys lookin at me now
  like "whos that chick, thats rockin' kicks,
  she gotta be from out of town"
  so hard with my girls all around me
  its definatel not a Nashville party
  cause' all i see are stilletos
  i guess i never got the memo
  my tummys turnin and im feelin kinda home sick
  too much pressure and im nervous
  and the D.J. dropped my favorite tune
  and a britney song was on
  and the britney song was on
  and the britney song was on
  
  so i put my hands up
  they're playing my song,
  and the butterflies fly away
  noddin' my head like yea
  movin my hips like yea
  i put my hands up,
  there playin my song
  i know im gonna be ok
  yea,
  its a party in the USA
  yea,
  its a party in the USA
  
  feel like hoppin on a flight
  back to my hometown tonight
  something stops me everytime
  the D.J. plays my song and i feel alright!
  
  so i put my hands up
  they're playing my song,
  and the butterflies fly away
  noddin' my head like yea
  movin my hips like yea
  i put my hands up,
  there playin my song
  i know im gonna be ok
  yea,(na, na na na na)
  its a party in the USA
  yea,
  its a party in the USA
  so i put my hands up
  they're playing my song,
  and the butterflies fly away
  noddin' my head like yea
  movin my hips like yea
  i put my hands up,
  there playin my song
  i know im gonna be ok
  yea,
  its a party in the USA
  yea,
  its a party in the USA
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• It's Over, Why is it Over?? It's Not Over...

  发布人 IM.UR.MAN*80 at 2009年11月28日
  
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  My tears run down like razorblades and no, I'm not the one to blame: it's you or is it me?
  And all the words we never say come out and now we are all ashamed. And there is no sense
  In playing games, when you done all you can do.
  
  But now it's over, it's over. Why is it over? We had the chance to make it. Now it's over,
  It's over. It can't be over. I wish that I could take it back, but it's over.
  
  I lose myself in all these fights; I lose my sense of wrong and right. I cry, I cry. I'm
  Shaking from the pain that's in my head. I just want to crawl into my bed and throw away
  The life I led. But I won't let it die. But I won't let it die.
  
  But it's over, it's over. Why is it over? We had the chance to make it. Now it's over,
  It's over. It can't be over. I wish that I could take it back.
  
  I'm falling apart, I'm falling apart. Don't say this wont last forever. You're breaking
  My heart, you're breaking my heart. Don't tell that we will never be together. We could be over
  And over, we could be forever.
  
  I'm falling apart, I'm falling apart. Don't say this wont last forever. You're breaking
  My heart, you're breaking my heart. Don't tell that we will never be together. We could be over
  And over, we could be forever.
  
  It's not over. It's not over, it's never over, unless you let it take you, it's not over,
  It's not over, it's not over, unless you let it break you. It's not over.
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• HELLO

  发布人 yahoo1959 at 2009年11月28日
  HELLO AND HAPPY HOLIDAYS TO ALL HERE AT GAMEDESIRE
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