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掲載者 lonely200 at 2009年11月29日ahhhhhhh
hh love this song 掲載者 lonely200 at 2009年11月29日my fav song
掲載者 lonely200 at 2009年11月29日favs
掲載者 lonely200 at 2009年11月29日Is this the ending to a relation
ship? 10 possible signs 掲載者 SexyLilGurl at 2009年11月29日Ok, lets admit it, its just not easy moving on when the person you love say its over. Sure you might pr
etend it doesn't affect you in any way and put on a fake smile but deep down it hurts you greatly. Its impossib le to build up enough trust to be able to love someone else. The signs could have been before your eyes but you chose to ignore them because you found it difficul t to believe it. Here are 10 possible signs that might be the ending of your relation ship: 1.)You and your bf/gf don't go out together as often as you use to.
2.)Your bf/gf doesn't call you as often as he or she used to.
3.)Your gf/bf didn't wish you on a special occasion.
4.)Your gf/bf doesn't reply to your emails,calls, or text messages instantl
y. 5.)There are other guys/gir
ls that he or she hangs with. 6.)The praises and gifts have reduced.
7.)The level of intimacy has reduced.
8.)He or she isn't bothered even if you don't call for days together.
9.)You don't feel the same with the person again.
10.)Number of fights have increase
d. Where is the Perfect Man Oh Love Genie?!
掲載者 .SABRINA. at 2009年11月29日While
I do find the banter on this thread cute I don't understa nd what it has to with the subject matter...whatever...it's cool...but I just want to say that there is NO PERFECT MAN...NO PERFECT WOMAN on the face of the planet, nor is there any perfect relation ship. We must all "pick our poison" so to speak. The inherent problem with marriage (and relation
ships in general) today is that marriage -- the union of two people -- was NEVER meant to be happy in any sense of the word. Let
’s review the history: Yet we use it so often the words happy together with marriage that we misunder
stand the institut ion alto gether. Marria ge was mainly to unite a man and a woman to work together to tend a farm and have kids to take over the duties as people age. But today -- we are so all about the romantic period idea of love happily ever after -- that when we are miserabl e in a marriage we give up and walk away. We don't realize as we wear that white gown and tuxedo that it is never going to be what we hope and dream of. IT will get boring; love will fade from that hot and heavy sex to a sweet long-las ting trust if you are LUCKY and work at it. Hav
ing said all that I truly understa nd the need to walk away when there are really serious issues involved...like drugs/al cohol addictio n, gambling away savings, and extreme abuse or violence. For
get the whole idea that you will only have eyes for each other and one or both will most likely stray over the course of a lifetime though it should not be condoned or accepted....it should not be the be all and end of all of a marriage. We do have to make choices of some major, major issues in a partner. We are not going to be able to find the hottest, sexiest, most romantic, kindest, most loving, loyal, honest, hard-wor
king, fun to be with at all times, never going to have a bad word between you, perfect at parentin g, knows all of your favorite things, kisses really good, complime nts you every day, spends just the right amount of money, great housekee per, wonderfu l cook, adores your every move, never snores, doesn't gain weight, will never cheat on you, takes care of you when you are sick, loves everyone in your family, can't wait to get that favorite pet, shares the remote and will cuddle with you whenever you need them because they are always there for you.......person. I'm sure I have left out about a thousand other things...but we have to get realisti
c....it isn’t all that!! It is not a magic institut ion that makes your every dream come true and takes care of your every need deal - even though that's what the world would have you think and pretty much what the vows are all about...in sickness AND in health, for richer OR for poorer, for better O R for worse, until death DO you part. That means you have to accept some pretty major health issues and face them together, it means dealing with severe money issues if that is what it comes to, and basicall y for better or for worse says it all. It was meant to be a contract that neither party was legally or religiou sly allowed to back out of in the event of misery. There WILL be misery...you can count on that. But the misery c an be minimize d if both parties cooperat e. B
e careful- --if this is not somethin g that you can manage...do NOT do it. There is no law neither legal nor religiou s against NOT getting married and there is no law or commandm ent (religio usly speaking ) that says you absolute ly HAVE to marry. The common denomina
tor is this: compatib ility notwiths tanding - is the person you are wanting to spend the rest of your life with capable of kindness and forgiven ess even in the worst of times? If not...RUN.
The gambler
掲載者 xunosmangos at 2009年11月29日On a warm summer's evenin' on a train bound for nowhere,
I met up with the gambler; we were both too tired to sleep.
So we took turns a starin' out the window at the darkness
'Til boredom overtook us, and he began to speak.
He said, "Son, I've made my life out of readin' people's faces,
And knowin' what their cards were by the way they held their eyes.
so if you don't mind my sayin', I can see you're out of aces.
For a taste of your whiskey I'll give you some advice."
So I handed him my bottle and he drank down my last swallow.
Then he bummed a cigarette and asked me for a light.
And the night got deathly quiet, and his face lost all expression.
Said, "If you're gonna play the game, boy, ya gotta learn to play it right.
You got to know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em,
Know when to walk away and know when to run.
You never count your money when you're sittin' at the table.
There'll be time enough for countin' when the dealin's done.
Ev'ry gambler knows that the secret to survivin'
Is knowin' what to throw away and knowing what to keep.
'Cause ev'ry hand's a winner and ev'ry hand's a loser,
And the best that you can hope for is to die in your sleep."
When he'd finished speakin', he turned back towards the window,
Crushed out his cigarette and faded off to sleep.
And somewhere in the darkness the gambler, he broke even.
But in his final words I found an ace that I could keep.
You got to know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em,
Know when to walk away and know when to run.
You never count your money when you're sittin' at the table.
There'll be time enough for countin' when the dealin's done.The Corrs
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