Points needed: 32
New Year, New Beginnings, New me
~~Change is Difficult ~~
"Let go of people who are not prepared to love you. This is the most difficult thing you will have to do in your life and it will also be the most important thing. Stop having difficult conversations with people who don't want to change. Stop appearing to people who are not interested in your presence. I know that your instinct is to do everything to gain the appreciation of those around you, but it is an impulse that steals your time, energy, mental and physical health. When you start to fight for a life with joy, interest and commitment, not everyone will be ready to follow you there. This does not mean that you need to change what you are, it means that you must let go of people who are not ready to accompany you. If you are excluded, insulted, forgotten or ignored by the people you give your time to, you are not doing yourself a favor by continuing to offer your energy and your life. The truth is that you are not for everyone and not everyone is for you. This is what makes it so special when you meet people with whom you have friendship or love. You will know how precious it is because you have experienced what it is not. The more time you spend trying to make yourself loved by someone who is not capable, the more time you spend depriving yourself of the possibility of that connection with another person. There are billions of people on this planet and many of them will meet you, at your level of interest and commitment. The more you stay involved with people who use you as a pillow, a background option or a therapist for emotional healing, the longer you get away from the community you want. Maybe if you stop showing up, you won't be wanted. Maybe if you stop trying, the relationship will end. Perhaps if you stop sending messages, your phone will remain dark for weeks. This does not mean that you have ruined the relationship, it means that the only thing you held was the energy that only you gave to maintain it. This is not love, it is attachment. It's wanting to give a chance to those who don't deserve it! You deserve a lot, there are people who shouldn't be in your life, you will realize. The most valuable thing you have in your life is your time and energy, as both are limited. As you give your time and energy, you will define your existence. When you realize this you begin to understand why you are so anxious when you spend time with people, in activities, places or situations that do not suit you and should not be near you, you are robbed of energy. You will begin to realize that the most important thing you can do for yourself and everyone around you is to protect your energy more fiercely than anything else. Make your life a safe haven, where only ′ ′ compatible ′ ′ people are allowed with you. You are not responsible for saving anyone. You are not responsible for convincing them to improve. It is not your job to exist for people and give your life to them! Because if you feel bad, if you feel obliged, you will be the root of all your problems by your insistence, fearing that the favors you have not been given back will not be returned. It is your only obligation to realize that you are the master of your destiny and to accept the love you think you deserve. Decide that you deserve true friendship, commitment. "True and complete love with healthy and prosperous people. Then wait and see how everything starts to change and will change, that's right, with positive people and good energy, don't waste time with people. that is not worth it, the change will give you the love, esteem, happiness and protection you deserve.