Sometimes I wonder if men ever think about things they say and do. I have a friend i have know for many years. He barely noticed my birthday earlier this month but today he made a big deal out of the birthday of another girl who he just met a short time ago. I am not going to pretend I was not hunt, so I asked him if I could ask him something that really was none of my business. He said if it is none of your business you know my answer, so I did not ask him if he and this girl were seeing each other. I just walked away upset. I never asked him the question that if he had answered it may have made me feel less insecure. I just wonder if men ever think about what they say and do and how it will effect others in their circle of friends.
I want to make one thing clear I am not jealous of this girl as in a boy girl way. I have my own man who is very kind, but I am a little jealous I have know my friend longer and he paid more attention to her birthday then mine. If he would have just let me ask my question and said yea him and her were keeping time I would have understood him taking more interest in her birthday then mine and all would have been good. I really do not think men have any clue how their actions effect others.
There are other things I will not go into right now playing on my insecurities.
highland.heather
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COMES A TIME WHEN EVERYONE HAS TO MOVE ON FROM THE CONPLACENT TO THE UNKNOWN.
