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WE DON'T REALLY LOSE A FRIEND! WE JUST REALIZE WHO THE REAL ONES ARE!
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ITS A BOY

SUNDAY APRIL 10,2022 MY GREAT GREAT NEPHEW MAVRICK ERIC LEE WAS BORN. HE IS THE FIRST CHILD OF HIS GENERATION IN OUR FAMILY. HIS UNCLE JUSTIN WAS THE FIRST OF HIS GENERATION AND HIS GRANDFATHER MY NEPHEW BOBBY WAS THE FIRST OF HIS GENERATION IN THIS FAMILY. LOOKS LIKE MY BROTHER'S FAMILY ARE GOOD AT BEING FIRST LOL.


SPRING IS COMING

I saw something out my window a couple days ago that told me spring is on the way. It was the very first robin I have seen this year. When the robins come back the spring days can not be far behind. I think this little guy should have waited a few more days before his return as we had 20 degree temps yesterday with snow squalls. I hope he found himself a sheltered place to hunker down, because we do not have hardly any trees in my neighborhood anymore and the ones we do have do not have leaves yet.
Lucky for the early birds ( early as back way too early in the year) I keep some bird seed on hand for them. I feel sorry for them when the weather gets cold, and they have no where to get in away from the cold, so i give them some easy access food to help keep them warm. LOL I just wish they would go to the bathroom in the grass and not on my trash cans and porch lol.


Minimum is all

Has anyone ever noticed how some people will definitely do the minimum to help out when needed, but will refuse to do anything if there is someone else that can do it instead? I do not know if it is just a younger person thing or it is spreading through out the population.
I remember one time when I was about 25, I had my niece and my friend's daughter out for a nice summer walk through the neighborhood near my home. We came upon these 2 little old ladies trying to cut down a bush. I realized someday I would be old too and may need some help with something, so I offered to help them. I finished cutting it down for them. They wanted to pay me I told them no someday I may need help and I hope someone will help me but that I would take a drink of water if they had it. They brought out 3 sodas one for me and one for each of the children I had with me that waited so patiently while I cut the bush out for the ladies. It is funny how things like that can come back in your favor. I now have a neighbor that will help me when I need it. I got me a little good karma that day.
I have seen people who would see people working on something and walk on by without ever asking if they needed any help or they would help a little and when more helpers show up they leave instead of staying till the job is done. It is like people think I do not need to try to help so and so will do it.


Paranoia

I have been told more then once in my life that I am paranoid sometimes, and there is some truth in that I guess, but let me throw this out there I may indeed be paranoid, or appear to be by others observations. Here is the thing: even paranoid people do have actual enemies. If you are paranoid not EVERYONE is out to get you but that does not mean that NO ONE is out to get you. The hard part is knowing the difference between those you think may be out to get you and those who DEFFINATLY ARE out to get you. The funny part is those who really are out to get you will not show it to other people, so if others see you acting suspicious of someone else they will just think you are paranoid. In later years I have found it much more beneficial not to obsess about those who are out to get you. ? Just go along and have as happy a life as you can, because the best way to get back at someone who is out to get you is to have a happy life in spite of them. It is much more fun to kick back and wait for karma to lay the smack down on people that mean you ill will.
That haven been said, MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL.


DO YOU THINK

Do you think when a guy puts a girl down trying to make her feel stupid he is really mean, or is it jus so he can in some way make himself feel smarter, or more powerful? Twice in the past 24 hrs I have had 2 diff guys say things to me to try to make me look stupid. Did they care that they made me cry? Nope not as long as they could put me down.

I do not know maybe it is because their self esteem is so low they need to do it to try to convince themselves that someone else is not as smart at them. Sometimes it is hard not to tell people off when they act like that, but sometimes you got to take the high road when it will not get through to them anyhow, and say nothing to them about it.

I do not know maybe it is just the heat that is causing my emotions to be so raw that the slightest little slur tares me apart and causes tears. It is kinda hard to keep your cool when everything around you is so hot and humid.

If you see yourself in any of this ask yourself WHY you see yourself in it.